Ladies Guide To Spotting A Nice Guy

01) Will view your physical beauty as a secondary importance, and the beauty of who you are as a person as being the MOST IMPORTANT.
02) Knows that making you feel appreciated is its own reward.
03) Wants mutual fun -- not just your fun at his expense, or his fun at your expense.
04) Buys or creates MEANINGFUL gifts, how much money is spent or not is irrelevant.
05) Can't ever stay mad at you, doesn't criminalize you for being mad at him.
06) Wants a relationship based on clear communication, genuine acceptance, honesty, respect and trust.
07) Is always thrilled to talk to you no matter what mood you're in.
08) Is good at talking and listening in equal measure.
09) Wants you to always be yourself, has no desire to control you, fix you or change you.
10) Mentions his own flaws as a means of showing you that its okay to make mistakes, does not mention them as a means of obtaining your sympathy.
11) Views cuddling and quality time as being more important than sex, but is also willing to explore sexuality.
12) Understands that when you're having a problem, that you want his insights and that you do not expect him to try to fix everything.
13) When he has a problem he wants your insights and is not expecting you to try to fix everything.
14) Views your playfulness as irresistibly adorable and isn't always too serious, but can be very serious when a situation requires it.
15) Views everything in terms of opportunity and not burden. You inspire him and he inspires you.
16) Wants things to evolve naturally at a relaxed pace, so that whether or not the end result is friendship or being more than friends, that its all based on a platform of integrity.
17) Nice guys only finish last when you refuse to see that they exist. This list was created by a guy.

The header photo used is of foreverartist5454 because her boyfriend is such a nice guy and as a good platonic friend of hers, so am I. Ladies, if you insist that jerks and assholes are all thats real, then thats all you'll ever notice. Not that wonderful guys aren't around you, just that believing is seeing and not the other way around. Yes, theres many jerks. But thats not all there is.

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